Lisa Wingate's compelling work of historic fiction, Before We Were Yours, is based on the true story of the Tennessee Children’s Home Society and Georgia Tann, the director of the Memphis branch of the organization. From 1924 until 1950, Tann and her agents "stole" over 5,000 poor children from their families, or conned parents into signing away their parental rights. Tann then sold these “orphans” to people who could afford to pay for a child.
I know many of you read Wingate's book when it first appeared in 2017 or have seen the made-for-TV movies based on Tann's actions, but the topic was relevant to me and also seemed timely to current events.
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Georgia Tann, proprietor of Memphis Children's Home Society |
When
I read Before We Were Yours, I read it with the knowledge that I, as a former social services
worker, had one time tried to take a mother’s children from her because I
thought it would be better for the children. I'm not saying I was wrong or right in my actions, I just remember that it wasn't a decision I made easily. You may read about it here.
During the Great Depression, an estimated 50,000 people lived
nomadic lives on the waterways of the country.
The shanty boat families often camped along the riverbanks when they weren't moving back and forth on the water. These poor
families were one group that Tann and her henchmen preyed upon.
Wingate’s
fictional narrative tells the story of one shanty boat family. Rill
Foss and her siblings are taken from their river gypsy parents, Briny and
Queenie Foss, through trickery and strong arm tactics. When Queenie,
the mother, has trouble delivering twins with the aid of a midwife on their
houseboat, Briny rushes Queenie to the hospital in Memphis. The doctor tells Briny
and Queenie that the twins died, a common ploy that the Memphis Children’s Home
Society uses to obtain newborns for adoption. Hospital personnel then trick
Briny and Queenie into signing papers that terminate their parental rights for all
their children.
While
the Foss children are home alone on the houseboat awaiting the return of their
parents, men board the boat, abduct the children and take them to a
boarding house for children in Memphis, which is part of the Tennessee Children’s
Home Society. The oldest child Rill tries desperately to watch after her four
siblings, Camellia, Fern, Lark and Gabion in the harsh conditions of the
boarding house filled with other children. Rill soon discovers that children
disappear from this facility; some children are adopted after adoptive parents
pay the proprietor of the enterprise, Georgia Tann, a substantial fee, while
others just disappear and are presumed dead.
Friends
of Briny and Queenie from the river shantytown, Zede and Silas, try to help the
children escape, but by then the family has been destroyed. Rill and her sister
Fern are fortunate to be placed together, adopted by a wealthy family who loves
them, treats them kindly, and provides them with many advantages growing up.
Rill resigns herself to being May Weathers, the name given to her by her new
family.
The
story of the Foss children unfolds in alternating chapters in Wingate’s book. Rill’s
voice details the horrifying circumstances she and her siblings face as they
are forcibly removed from their riverboat home and taken to the Memphis
Children’s Home Society. The next
chapter switches to present day and is the voice of Avery Stafford, a young
woman from a prominent political family in Memphis. Avery is searching for
answers about her beloved grandmother Judith’s life as Judith Stafford’s
memories and words are lost to dementia. Eventually the lives of the women,
Avery Stafford, May Weathers, and Judith Stafford, intersect.
Georgia
Tann’s contemporaries were either ignorant of her nefarious network or willing
to ignore her methods of procurement and treatment of children. At one time, Tann’s
contemporaries praised her as the “mother of modern adoption.” Because Tann
catered to prominent men and women who desperately wanted children, the stigma
of adoption began to disappear. Actors
Joan Crawford, Lana Turner, June Allyson and Dick Powell used her agency to
adopt children. Eleanor Roosevelt sought Tann’s advice on issues of adoption
and child welfare during the Depression.
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Actresses Joan Crawford and June Allyson
with the children they adopted from
the Memphis Children's Home Society |
In
1945 between 40 and 50 infants in Tann’s boarding homes died of dysentery. However, Tann and her network were so embedded
into the circles of power and control that when the Tennessee legislature passed
a law requiring that all boarding houses for children must be licensed, they
exempted her establishments.
When a Tennessee governor who wasn’t a friend of Tann was elected, her
lucrative empire began to crumble. A
1950 study of the Tennessee Children’s Home Society exposed the horrors of the Memphis
operations, and the report was submitted to the Tennessee governor.
Many parents whose children were stolen from
them tried for years to find their children.
Authorities made this next to impossible. Even after the horrors committed
by Georgia Tann were exposed, Tennessee public officials sealed the records of
her homes until 1995!
During
the years Tann operated her series of boarding houses for “orphans,” it’s estimated that 500 children died in
these institutions. In recent years, Tann
has been described as the most prolific serial killer of children in US
history.
Wingate
consulted multiple sources to confirm and tell the story of the Memphis
Children’s Home Society: books, articles, plus the 1950 report to the governor of Tennessee.
Once
again, an ugly chapter involving the treatment of poor children is being written in the United States. Along our southern border from April--June 2018, Border
Patrols agents and immigration officials separated an estimated 3,000
children from their parents, immigrants from Central America, who are trying to enter the US from Mexico.
According
to parents, government immigration agents told the parents that their children were
being taken to another space for a shower or bathroom break but in reality, the
children were removed to large holding facilities until the Office of Refugee
Resettlement (ORR) could take custody of the children. The adults were sent to
detention centers without seeing their children. Some immigrants report that they were pressured to sign forms
waiving their reunification rights, others were told if they agreed to
deportation, they would be reunited with their children more quickly. This was
a lie.
When the president of the American Academy of Pediatrics,
Colleen Kraft, toured a Texas holding facility for children, she found children
in great distress. Kraft wrote after her visit, “Separating children from their
parents contradicts everything we stand for as pediatricians – protecting and
promoting children’s health. In fact, highly stressful experiences, like family
separation, can cause irreparable harm, disrupting a child’s brain architecture
and affecting his or her short and long-term health.” Long-term toxic stress bathes the brain in hormones that can permanently alter the "wiring" of a child's brain.
On July 20 President Trump finally ended the wholesale separation of
children from their parents, bowing to intense political and public pressure,
and US District Judge Dana Sabraw gave the government until July 26 to reunite
children with their parents. The government says it reunited 1,820 children
with their parents or close family relatives by the deadline.
As of July 29, 711 children had not yet been reunited with
their families. The parents of 431 children have already been deported, making
the reunification process more difficult. Immigrant advocacy lawyers continue
to work on behalf of these children and their families, trying to reunite
children with parents or other family members.
I think of the Memphis Society Children’s Society Home when I
read of the horrors these immigrant parents have endured.
Wingate dedicates Before We Were Yours, to “… the hundreds [of children] who vanished and for the
thousands who didn’t. May your stories not be forgotten.”
I
hope the stories of these immigrant families are not forgotten, because
the United States is a better country than these incidents indicate.